A Gay Man's Right...

 

It's a gay man's inalienable right. His inherited prerogative. His birthright. What I'm referring to is the privilege that we all have to determine exactly what is sexually appealing or "sexy" to us as individuals. True, we have the celebrities that the media and pop culture market as "hot" or whatever. But each one of us has our own special "ideal" or "type" that always manages to catch our eye and other select parts of our anatomy.

 

There's as many different opinions as to what's hot or not as there are gay men on this planet. That's cool, because if you pause to think about it, if we all fantasized and pursued the same dream, who's left to want the leftovers? And we all know that almost all of us fall into the leftover category. Very few of us qualify for the "dream/fantasy" label.

 

   

 

What is sexually desirable to one man isn't necessarily the same for another. We're all as diverse physically as we are in our erotic and fantasy dreams. So, it's our right, our individual option, for full self-determination as to who we find and decide is sexy. Madison Avenue (advertising/marketing) may think that it's their choice. However, at the end of the day, we ultimately choose who we want to share our respective beds.

 

My dream or fantasy man is one who preserves his natural body hair. A shaved, smooth body on a man just isn't something that I find attractive or desirable. If a man has a naturally hairless torso, that's cool. But let it be natural and not a cosmetic look. Sparse armpit, chest and pubic hair is fine, as long as it's not altered in any way. I like a man who looks like a grown man, not a young boy. After all, I'm a man who has sex with men, not boys!

 

 

 

I'm not particular about age, body size, ethnicity or race. My sole stipulation as to my dream man is that he just be the man that he really is. Truth be known, ass or cock size isn't a major concern. Please just let what hair you are endowed with grow where it's supposed to be! Hey, that's me being honest about what I like or prefer. I don't need an advertising exec telling me what I should want.

 

I realize that there are gay men, probably a large number of gay men, who disagree with me on this. That's my purpose in posting this on Guys Without Boxers. We all have the freedom to follow our fantasies and enjoy the man of our individual dreams, no matter what the stereotypical "hot hunk" of the day happens to be. Like the folk proverb advises us, "To thine own self be true."

 

Naked hugs.  





President's Day

A full salute (and a pun intended) to all of those who have served these United States as our Commander-in-Chief. I think it is a great idea to have them serve as Commando-in-Chief! 

Naked hugs.

Valentine's Day, 2013

 

 

Most of us like a good chocolate candy every now and then (in my case, more now rather than later). So hirsute model and escort Gio adorns himself in chocolate syrup for our Valentine's pleasure. The phrase "finger-licking good" takes on a whole new meaning with extra anatomical areas inviting our tongue to taste. Happy Valentine's Day!

 

 



For those who prefer the more conventional type of Valentine's sweets, there's always a box of chocolates in a heart shaped box for them to sink their teeth into (along with other various body parts).

 

 

It was exactly one year ago, Valentine's Day evening, that my boyfriend and I had our first date. A slice of anniversary cake I offer to you in celebration of this very special day in my life. I'll gladly share the sweet cake but not my boyfriend's sweet cakes!

 

Naked hugs.

Mardi Gras "Fat Tuesday"

 

The carnival time of the year, which begins on New Year's Day, ends tomorrow on Mardi Gras, or Fat Tuesday. On Wednesday, February 13, the penitential period of Lent begins. So revellers "pull out all the punches" on these last few days of Carnival. Party and "sin" now before you have to do penance. Well, the church is no longer as influential as it once was; however, once the party tradition starts, it's awfully hard to end the custom.

 

During this festive time, many nudist clubs, facilities and resorts hold special events and parties to celebrate this occasion. These final days of revelry become particularly intense as everyone tries to join in the fun before it all comes to an end on Ash Wednesday. So grab your beads and masks, strip off your clothes and prepare to get wild. Now's the time to figuratively and literally let it all hang out and let the good times roll! 

 

I'm told by some acquaintances that part of the traditions of Mardi Gras is for men to shave their body hair. Even guys who otherwise don't shave or trim do so in honor of Fat Tuesday. Being a "natural" man myself, I'm not sure as to the reasons behind this practice and I certainly don't engage in this aspect of the observance. I admire and appreciate the hirsute male too much than to grab a razor or scissors. But, to each their own pleasure.

 

The best places to be in the United States for Mardi Gras are New Orleans, Louisiana and Mobile, Alabama. The festivities in these locations span multiple days and include huge parades, street fairs and endless bar-hopping. Of course, nothing comes close to competing with the celebrations that take place in Sydney, New South Wales, Australia and in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil. The Southern Hemisphere knows how to throw a party as this is their summertime and perfectly suited for outdoor events and gatherings.  

 

As to my own Mardi Gras plans, my boyfriend and I attended a private naked party this past Saturday night. The theme was, of course, the climax of the Carnival. Upon arrival, we were presented with the customary beads and next had to decorate a plain mask using glitter and feathers supplied our hosts. It wasn't as exciting as the action in Mobile or New Orleans but you go with what's available.

 

Naked hugs.   

Hairy Armpits: February, 2013

 

 

There's more fur on this man than what's found growing in his armpits. That's not such a bad thing as it's February and man, it's cold outside. He's enough hair to keep two men warm all winter long. February's hot nude of the month is Venezuelean-born Gio, who works as a male escort and model based in New York City.

 

Naked hugs. 

Black History Month

The history of all of us is interconnected, so Black History Month is a time for everyone to explore, honor and remember a culture that has contributed much and continues to enrich our national dynamic. We don't just keep this as a one month observance, because it's with us all throughout every day of the year. But it is a month to feature and highlight a part of our history that represents both the best and the worst times of our national heritage. 

Naked hugs. 

Nude of the Month: February, 2013

Man, it's really cold outside, we're now in February, the middle of winter! During this month, we'll observe Valentine's Day, the international day of romance (and the first anniversary for my boyfriend and I). In honor of this auspicious occasion, I give to you a triptych of Chad Taylor, Nude of the Month here on Guys Without Boxers.  

The palm trees and blue sky in the image above I hope serve as a reminder that Spring will return soon. Just hang in there for a little bit longer.

Naked hugs.

Chad Taylor, Nude of the Month for February, 2013, is eye candy for the whole year. Above he gives us a glimpse of his naturally sparse, yet still sexy, underarm fur. His cock and balls are hanging nicely and add to his beauty. The absence of a tanline let us know he's comfortable being naked outside.